Searching for Florence Okpealuk and Joseph Balderas with Payne Lindsey of Up and Vanished

Searching for Florence Okpealuk and Joseph Balderas with Payne Lindsey of Up and Vanished

Released Wednesday, 9th October 2024
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Searching for Florence Okpealuk and Joseph Balderas with Payne Lindsey of Up and Vanished

Searching for Florence Okpealuk and Joseph Balderas with Payne Lindsey of Up and Vanished

Wednesday, 9th October 2024
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purposes. some

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version of that. That's true. That's why

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people are reaching out to us because they're already

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desperate and it's already gone cold, so to speak.

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I'm going in assuming that they're not going

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to cooperate with me. Not that

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I'm not going to try. I always

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hope that there's some sort of decent

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relationship or a relationship at all with

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me and us who are covering a

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missing person's case, but a majority of

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the time that just does not happen.

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I think there's a lot

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of ego involved sometimes and it's not

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their desire to talk about a case

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they weren't able to solve. I think

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a lot of people are just offended

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by someone else coming in

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there and really it's not a competition

12:38

to us and I think if professionals

12:40

view it that way, it speaks

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volumes as to what the hell their problem is in

12:45

the first place. Something that

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I hear a lot from whether it be

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police or FBI agents that I reach out

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to is they claim like a lack of

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resources, a lack of staff and I know

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that's something that you often run into on

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your cases. How do you think we would

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address that problem? Is it a matter of

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staffing? Is it a matter of training? It's

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such a vague thing to say like

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lack of resources. What do you mean?

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What do you need? To get paid

13:12

more, to have more officers, to have

13:14

a detective, a cold case

13:16

unit. I think it just depends on

13:18

specifically where and what, but I think

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it just takes people who care like

13:23

the right people, not

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the people with egos who became

13:27

a cop for the wrong reasons.

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I've talked to some good cops and some

13:32

bad cops and all the good ones acknowledge

13:34

that there's a lot of shitty ones and

13:37

I've talked to some good cops who really

13:39

care and will go out

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of their way to assure the family

13:43

that something's being done or try new

13:46

things and not be as gatekeeper or

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stuck in the 1960s or something

13:50

like pre-internet on how things work. I have

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a little bit of hope, but like in

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a place like Nome, Alaska, they're

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not there yet. I was recently

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I want to say I first landed in Nome

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late 22 or early 23, and we really made

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a serious effort

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to be as incognito as possible, just

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about what we were doing, because we

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knew that it would eventually impact the

33:23

case in some way, and that once

33:25

the cast out of the bag we

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can't take that same approach anymore. So

33:30

preserving that for as long as we could. And

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we did for a majority of this

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season, it's been that until

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obviously when the podcast came out, and

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then once people realized

33:43

that we were actually for real

33:45

covering Joseph's case too, and it

33:48

wasn't a tangential story, it changed

33:50

everything forever because now the entire

33:52

town knows that the

33:54

two unsolved cases here of missing

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persons are being covered by this

33:59

podcast. But

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I was just being stupid and I literally

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forgot to cancel my last flight, which was

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from Anchorage to Nome. And

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I never checked in. I've flown

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enough, I know how it works on

46:11

the consumer side enough to know that

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if I didn't tell anybody this and

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I didn't check in, I'm not going to

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appear on your app as like

46:19

P. Lindsey in some upgrade list, but

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not calling my name out at the

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desk. I know that those things

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aren't how somebody knew I was coming to Nome.

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It had to be from someone who

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can look that up. The

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day of the flight, it was as

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if people knew the flight I was

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going to be on specifically. I

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decided because they were so certain

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that I was coming that

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I'm just going to pretend like I was there. So

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if anyone was trying to keep tabs on me, at

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least for a moment, they'd think, holy shit, how did

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he get past us? Or

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simultaneously trying to figure out,

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is there anything to this? Am I reading

46:59

into it too much? And turns out

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I wasn't. But nine

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or not, multiple people had looked

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up to see if I was

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coming. And without any hint

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that I was going to be there, I

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can only assume that somebody was

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monitoring it, checking frequently

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my name. I

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don't work for Alaska Airlines. I can't

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go into their computer system. I

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can't prove who did what. Only

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they can do that with some

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form of internal investigation. And

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obviously, we don't feel safe

47:33

flying commercially via Alaska Airlines

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to Nome anytime soon, if

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our information can't remain private. And

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that's a major safety concern

47:44

when in a town that

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small, we're basically here to

47:48

investigate two unsolved murders. It

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could be a vacation and I don't want you to know where

47:53

I am. I don't even post

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my location until I leave somewhere for sure. Yeah,

47:57

I don't have to make any big claims here. other

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than I don't like that. I

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don't want you to know where I am at all times.

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And I think everyone might feel that way. So

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nefarious or not, or a combination of

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all the above, I'd like

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to know where that came from. And I'd more

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so like to know that it won't happen again.

48:16

Obviously, I'm not gonna take their

48:18

airline anymore. And we'll find

48:20

other creative ways to get there. Are

48:23

there other routes that people take in? You

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can get there by boat, but

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now it would have to be

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something that we're really creative on

48:32

who we're telling who what. We

48:35

cannot be the names, the real names of

48:37

ourselves on that thing, which we

48:39

know some people who could help us with that, but that would

48:41

have to be what it is. So

48:43

essentially, they may have looked at

48:46

the flight manifest and saw that you were supposed

48:48

to be on this flight. Yeah,

48:50

someone who works at the airport

48:52

and or airlines who has access

48:55

to that. I do

48:57

know that it's federally regulated because

48:59

of terrorism. It is

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a federal crime to access

49:04

and disseminate private information like

49:06

that. It could have been one

49:09

person, two people, three out of

49:11

curiosity. Whether it was nefarious

49:13

or not, you still deserve your privacy. Yeah,

49:16

and I think that with as

49:18

many ties to certain individuals

49:20

who have been aired on this podcast

49:22

to the airline and could

49:25

be somebody who could be privy to

49:27

that information or also have access to

49:29

it, it just makes it feel even

49:31

less safe. You don't have

49:33

to connect a whole bunch of dots for

49:35

you to understand why we would be uncomfortable

49:37

or feel like something should be done about

49:39

it. What comes next

49:42

in this case? How many

49:44

episodes are you anticipating and where are

49:46

you at in the investigation? We

49:49

have one coming out this week, episode 16. And

49:52

then we have episode 17 coming out

49:54

next week. Then we're taking

49:56

another small break and we're gonna come

49:58

back in conclusion. with

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eight more episodes. And

50:03

just like in the first installment,

50:06

it was mostly about Florence's case

50:08

and then it became about Joseph's case and

50:11

then part two has been about Joseph mostly.

50:13

The third installment

50:15

will be both cases more

50:18

evenly covered and now

50:20

that you're caught up on what there is

50:22

to know, pulling out everything we

50:24

got in the box and showing it to

50:27

you. What has it been

50:29

like to have that support from

50:31

Florence's family and from Joseph's family?

50:33

Have they listened to the

50:35

podcast? I can't imagine what

50:38

it would be like to hear the

50:40

podcast. I know some of them listen

50:42

to it, some of them

50:44

choose not to, which I also understand.

50:46

Some people have listened to certain

50:48

parts because they were told by other family

50:50

or friends that they should hear this part.

50:53

But I think that overall,

50:55

it's felt to me

50:58

and them too, I believe,

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like a sense of camaraderie

51:02

that feels pretty nice in the

51:04

sense of us collaborating

51:06

to get answers. And

51:09

attention for their loved one. Yeah,

51:11

and other people care and they

51:13

can see that. People have

51:16

done beautiful oil paintings

51:18

of Joseph and Florence

51:20

and stuff like that. To the

51:22

family, that's amazing. They're not forgotten.

51:25

I'm sure it's simultaneously the hardest

51:28

thing on earth to relive it

51:30

and go through all that and

51:34

for it to be spotlighted again. And unfortunately,

51:36

that's kind of what has to happen to

51:38

solve it unless the police

51:41

do something different. But I

51:43

think for the most part, what they've

51:45

believed happened or didn't

51:47

happen to their loved ones has

51:49

been more and more validated.

51:52

That matters more than people consider

51:54

it does sometimes. I

51:56

can't arrest anybody, but knowing that they

51:59

weren't crazy. and that

52:01

that person did say this or

52:03

that my own objective

52:05

investigation found what

52:08

they thought was weird too,

52:11

that validation is also something

52:13

that's helpful and

52:16

just moving forward in some way and not

52:18

being alone on an island and the

52:20

only one thinking and talking this

52:22

way about it. I'm sure it

52:24

would instill hope. More eyes is

52:27

always better, especially on missing persons

52:29

cases and so I imagine

52:31

that for them it would bring such

52:33

a sense of comfort that somebody's actually

52:35

working this, especially after waiting so long.

52:39

What is one of the more

52:41

common misconceptions that people have about

52:43

missing persons cases? This

52:45

is just my opinion, but I

52:48

feel like most people never go missing. Missing

52:50

means they're dead. Now there

52:52

are cases where people have been found and

52:55

they were alive or they were kidnapped or

52:57

they ran away and started a whole new

52:59

life, but when years go by, a

53:02

lot of those things become less likely

53:05

and I tend to

53:07

believe that a majority of

53:09

year old unsolved missing persons

53:11

cases, they're basically just

53:14

unsolved homicides without a body, especially

53:16

if the evidence points to that,

53:18

circumstantially. It's very infrequent

53:20

that somebody would actually have like

53:23

a mental break or choose to

53:27

vanish themselves, essentially. Yeah, choose to

53:29

go missing on their own account

53:31

in accord and still be alive

53:33

and well somewhere. That

53:36

is, in my opinion, the

53:38

lowest on the list. It's not the

53:40

most common thing. That I think

53:42

is a common misconception. It's

53:45

too broad of a look at it.

53:47

You got to zoom in some more

53:49

and say, okay, they're not hiding somewhere.

53:52

Maybe someone hid them somewhere. What

53:55

is the most common misconception that people have

53:57

about you? I think there's a

53:59

lot of misconceptions. of

56:00

the family and their words. I'm happy and thankful

56:02

that you were able to make time to come

56:04

on and I certainly appreciate the

56:06

work that you do and where can

56:08

we go and support you? Well,

56:11

thank you for all those kind of words. That was very

56:13

nice of you. I feel the same way about you. You're

56:15

doing

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