In this episode we talk about some of the surprising challenges that folks might face whilst being in the swinging lifestyle. We know that things aren't always roses and rainbows, so we asked our community to send in things that shocked them once they had started swinging - and what really surprised them. From costs and cliques to reactions about bi guys and expectations around bi ladies - this one covers a whole bunch of surprising things!

Do let us know what has surprised you since you've started on your adventures. Stay tuned to the very end for a couple of clips from friends of the show too! Thanks for hopping into our bed!